Longing To Be Me – Getting to know the core of yourself, Show Up As You!

Longing To Be Me – Getting to know the core of yourself, Show Up As You!

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Have you been trying to be someone else? Have you been trying to influence instead of listen? Pretend you aren't who you really are?  Playing by the rules of others! Entering into their game and not honouring you, going against what you feel to be right.

Too many people forget who they are, don't know how, or are trying to actually be someone different than they are... We look at the neighbours and compare, we look at those in powerful positions and compare ourselves, and then we launch into judgement of ourselves, telling ourselves we are not good enough to come anywhere close to that. The good news is you are not expected to be them, to act like them or have what they have.

All we have is ourselves - our history, our wisdom, our ability to be a great friend, relative or employee.  We also have our fears, faults and feelings.  When you Show Up As You... you offer your unique gifts to every conversation and every interaction in your personal life or on the job.

It's a good idea to identify why you sometimes don't Show Up As You.  See if any of these reasons resonate with you:

1) I'm not good enough.

2) I feel inadequate.

3) I haven't done enough.

4) They want something else.

5) Who I really am won't please them.

6) I'm afraid to show them the real me.

7) I don't know enough.

Of course we learn all these beliefs and feelings at home, in our first big relationships or on the job. 

Every moment of your day presents an opportunity to Show Up As You - in your personal life and at work, with every small choice throughout your day. How often do you wear the mask, of being something you think others want you to be?

The consequences of NOT feeling free to Show Up As You can be truly disheartening.  You don't feel aligned, you don't feel congruent, and you don't communicate your true values and needs to others in your life. And you feel disconnected!

The benefits of being able to Show Up As You are too numerous to count. Suffice it to say, you will feel more peaceful, happier, and will have an easier time getting on the right path every day.

So I invite you to Show Up As You with every small and big decision that presents itself to you today, this week, this year.

Our thoughts, feelings and behaviours carry energy...


Our vibration matters! 


So be willing to Show Up and abundance in all areas will start showing up for you.  When you are open to this kind of congruence, the Universe will support you in new and surprising ways by opening up new channels of abundance.


When you change your vibration,

you will change your life.


Go ahead, raise your vibration

by being inspired to

Show Up As You!


The World has been waiting!


When you show up as you, you can truly get to know your core self.


I love using essential oils, they are a great support in emotional balance and finding the core of who we are. The oils I use when I am feeling a little fragmented, when I have been over analyzing and need to focus on the present moment. My preferred supplier is dōTERRA the purest I have found on the market today.

Salubelle – Oil of Spiritual Insight

Regenerating, Youthful, Replenishing

This blend combines the power of high vibrating oils alongside grounding oils to assist the connection between spirit & body, heaven & earth and encourages positive states of being and supports the development of faith, hope, gratitude, kindness, love, patience. This is great for meditation to help quiet the mind.


Melissa – Oil of Light

Awakening, Authentic, Restorative


Awakens the soul to truth and light, it help to remind individual of who they truly are and why they came to earth it invites one to release everything and anything that holds them back from reaching their fullest potential.


Frankincense – Oil of Truth

Royal, Resin, Woody


Reveals deceptions and false truths. It invites individuals to let go of lower vibrations, lies, deceptions and negativity. It helps create new perspectives based on light and truth.

Recalls to memory spiritual understandings, gifts, wisdom, and the knowledge the soul brought into the world.


Helichrysum – Oil for Pain

Healing, Fusing, Regenerating


Removes pain quickly, aids the walking wounded, those with a history of a difficult life circumstances, trauma, addiction, loss or abuse. Gives strength and endurance to the wounded soul, restores confidence in life and self.

Helichrysum offers hope that their wounds can be healed. Following this spiritual healing and transformation, it can teach an individual to have gratitude for their trials. Helps them to see if they hadn’t been wounded, they would not have sought healing that resulted in spiritual growth. Helps one face their adversities with courage and determination.


Do you want to learn more about these amazing oils? Simply click on the link below or copy to your browser and put in your details and I will contact you to assist you in sourcing these beautiful, powerful oils for yourself. http://bit.ly/SoulTVdoTERRAOils


Kirstyn Marriott is the Mind Transformation Catalyst. As an Author, Speaker and Energy Psychology Practitioner, a passionate essential oil Wellness Advocate, Kirstyn is a master of freeing people from mental, emotional and physical stress and blocks.

Working with clients who are experiencing disharmony in their lives or seek clarity and direction, Kirstyn integrates powerful healing methods to see her clients manifesting meaningful changes in their lives – both personally, financially and professionally. Focusing on holistic transformation on all levels and in all areas, Kirstyn has powerfully impacted the lives of many people.